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Living Forward: Joyce O'Brien On Life After Recovery From Stage IV Breast Cancer

Former Wall Street executive Joyce O'Brien is not one to simply accept the hand she's been dealt. Following a grim cancer diagnosis at 33 — soon after the birth of her daughter — she overhauled her lifestyle in dramatic fashion, cleansing and detoxing while also receiving conventional radiation treatments and ultimately making a miraculous recovery.

But cancer was just one of the life-altering events that Joyce faced with a remarkable optimism that propelled her to turn her luck around. Now 47 and cancer-free, Joyce has left her Wall Street career behind to become an author and speaker, inspiring others to live a healthy life even in the face of adversity.

"If someone's been diagnosed with cancer, the first thing that I'll say to them is that there is hope," Joyce says. "We truly can create miracles. I'm one of them."

Living Forward is a video series brought to you by Live Better America. Join us as we highlight 24 hours in the lives of people who have used the wisdom of their experiences to bring meaning to their lives and value to those around them.

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03:58 PM on 01/16/2013
i don't believe that stage 4 cancer is curable, especially if you are young woman. sorry, but i don't believe in Joyce's story. my mom was diagnosed with stage 2 (B) breast cancer and died four years later after very fierce battle. she had all protocols of cancer treatments.
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Matthew Vella
11:41 AM on 01/24/2013
Different patients react differently. Stage 4 definitely doesn't mean you'll definitely die from cancer, just as Stage 1 doesn't mean you'll survive it.
03:35 PM on 01/16/2013
A few years ago I had a cancer scare and I had some preventative surgery. Many years before that I had a flesh eating disease that I almost lost my life to. Ended up losing my leg as a result. I'm luck to be alive, but since that (20 years ago), I've had numerous bacterial infections and one viral infection. The stuff never leaves your body but doing the right things for your body will keep it away. I wholeheartedly hope that you never have any returns of the cancer.
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Janenotdoe
truth be known...
01:18 PM on 01/16/2013
BRAVO! As long as there's breath in the body 'hope' can be present.. powerful ...and even be miraculous, from what I read and have heard.
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budoinst
People just didn't get it. Payment is near
11:02 AM on 01/16/2013
Joyce, I wish you the absolute best. It seems you are followin a wonderful protocol and that means a great deal. Keep getting checkups very regularly. I know of too many who have been in the situation and a few years later cancer moving to brain and liver areas undetected and without CA125 readings showings as such. I recently had endometrial cancer, Stage 3, and have heard of the same reports. I am also following a very strict regimen. This is not to be negative, but just a suggestion from one who understands your position. I wish you the best!
03:47 PM on 01/16/2013
.......the journey is forever, so fight on! I, too, was diagnosed with Stage IV metastatic uterine (endometrial) cancer w/bilateral breast cancer, 5+yrs. ago, with breast ca being traced directly back 43 yrs. ago to when I survived Stage 2A Hodgkins!....I'm feeling great and doing great, all 6 mos. repeat PET/CT scans are "stable", all labs are good, and we're expecting our 3rd baby granddaughter anytime! I wish all cancer survivors the very best, be very diligent with your checkups, and I too, surely understand your journey....fight on!
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fpwillson
Fighter for justice and the truth
11:01 AM on 01/16/2013
Nice try, (unknown) author. Once you catch cancer you are going to die of cancer (unless you die of something else first). Remission? Nope. They can remove so much of the disease that it remains undetectable for a time, but it's still there, and it'll be back.
Are there cases of recoveries? No, not really. Generally, these are the results of misdiagnosed cancer. You didn't really have cancer and went through all that for nothing.
Am I being pessimistic? No. I've fought cancer twice (Prostate both times) and it's just a question of when I'm going to die of cancer.
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hercurleywig
01:21 PM on 01/16/2013
You may not be pessimistic, but you certainly are NOT optmistic.
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fpwillson
Fighter for justice and the truth
11:21 PM on 01/16/2013
You are correct, wig. I am not pessimistic or optimistic. I am truthful and honest.
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mary collins finn
Cogito
01:28 PM on 01/16/2013
Your post is misinformation without any scientific basis whatsoever. As a retired physician I am only responding to your post just in case there is someone out there who attributes any credibility to your statement. Yes, many people are cured of cancer - meaning it is treated and they never experience a reappearance of the disease.
08:18 PM on 01/16/2013
Yes, I can personally attest to one person, my mother, who was diagnosed with Leukemia in her 40's. She started eating a macrobiotic diet, and today she is 86. She has other ailments but the cancer never returned.
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fpwillson
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11:20 PM on 01/16/2013
And at 75, I say Pig Snot to your theory.
Please, if you don't mind, please tell me what part of what I wrote was incorrect.

"Once you catch cancer you are going to die of cancer (unless you die of something else first)."

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