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Living Forward: Ken DeLeon On Resilience In The Face Of Personal Tragedy

They say life isn't fair, and it seems likely that no one knows this better than Ken DeLeon. At age 40, the successful Palo Alto-based real estate agent has already had to overcome the suicide of his sister, a cancer diagnosis and a violent hit and run incident that landed him in the hospital for three weeks. But rather than give up, Ken has emerged from each personal tragedy with a renewed sense of positivity and strength — and a first-place ranking among real estate agents in the United States by The Wall Street Journal, with $275 million in sales in 2011.

"I realized that you can't control your life," he says, "but what you do with that event is completely within your power." Now, Ken is using the lessons he's learned through his struggles to motivate others to overcome their own adversity and live for the present. Join us in this episode of Living Forward to find out more about his remarkable journey.

Living Forward is a new video series brought to you by Live Better America. Join us as we highlight 24 hours in the lives of people who have used the wisdom of their experiences to bring meaning to their lives and value to those around them.

 
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nltomboy2
09:08 PM on 12/12/2012
There are very few adults who have not experienced their share of heartache. All of the stories here are very sad.

Yet, are any of these truly sadder than the children of Africa, with their big bellies, who are starving and thirsty? Or of the women being sexually mutilated?

We each have in our power the intelligence to overcome adversity. It's a matter of one step forward at a time. Not always the easiest thing to do, but it is doable.
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dbrockskk1
08:56 PM on 12/12/2012
God bless
06:39 PM on 12/12/2012
Ken,
Thanks for sharing your story! I have to say that I cried while watching this video. Not because I feel sorry for what you've been through, but because your strength, positivity and sense of life came through so strongly! There are so many people in the world that have gone through similar tragedies and didn't have the courage and strength to keep going. I hope that others are as affected by hearing your story as I have been and can see that just because something bad has happened you don't have to give up or give in to the tragedy. Thank you again. Good luck and God Bless!
05:39 PM on 12/12/2012
You're a beautiful person......... strong and loving spirit !
04:47 PM on 12/12/2012
Why do you ask me to feel sorry for this man? Plenty of people go through these issues and they're broke. I'm supposed to feel sorry for the millionaire? Poor you.
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GOODDOC1
"civil war" is an oxymoron
07:57 PM on 12/12/2012
With your attitude, I feel sorry for anyone who knows you.
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dbrockskk1
08:58 PM on 12/12/2012
I agree tiger.
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brian harington
04:35 PM on 12/12/2012
money can't and will not get you happiness I have 5-10 years on this plannet am ready to die and move on to another life I was born poor I will die poor but I made 2 trips to japan trip no 2 for my 46th birthday to see black sabbath with orginal cast and crew made 9 trips to thailand on my own and seen a great chunk of this plannet with the navy to include a numerous of conflicts no matter how rich or poor you are life has twist and turns enjoy for what you got because nobody is immune to lifes misfourtunes or unfourtuones things will change but the most important aspect is have unconditonal love for your love ones a million dollar mansion won't buy you happiness and we as pepole fail to see things the other way just because you have a 40 million dollar mansion or a fat wad of cash in your pocket dosen't mean that you are truly happy If I were a million year or even a billion year I still live the way I live today the most important thing is I have life I feel sorry for those who committed sucicide wish somebody was there to intervene I myself almost died twice within 3 years and yes God loves you when it is time to die it is time to die no matter how much money you have it won't buy you extra time...
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dbrockskk1
08:58 PM on 12/12/2012
ever heard of spelling and punctuation??
04:13 PM on 12/12/2012
True life stories of the truely misfortunate. "Poor Guy"
04:10 PM on 12/12/2012
easy to recover when you are rich... his troubles nothing compared to the middle class suffering the past 6 years. Sorry dude, cannot feel sorry for you.
04:36 PM on 12/12/2012
Do you honestly think that having money makes losing a sister easy? Or going through cancer a breeze? You are just a bigot. And he isn't asking you to feel sorry for him. He is reaching out to people.
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dbrockskk1
09:00 PM on 12/12/2012
"bigot"?? Oh, get it! We're only supposed to post if we agree with you! Try going through all that with no money and no health insurance.
03:45 PM on 12/12/2012
Sorry dude, got you way beat. Cancer, twice widowed, lost my security clearance due to my wife's illness, and a child with a long list of health issues. Not to mention that my life savings got eatten up by my late wife's illness (she had to go on Medicad to afford nursing care). I only recently started to replensih my retirment account and pay of the nursing home liens on my house.
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dbrockskk1
09:00 PM on 12/12/2012
well said.
02:57 PM on 12/12/2012
It's all those pictures that come with 'wealth'..... those greedy spirits still knee deep in 'give....me'! You gotta keep saying NO! Meditate.
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Tom Haig
02:44 PM on 12/12/2012
He is an inspiration, no doubt about it.

Good for him.
01:17 PM on 12/12/2012
"what you do with that event is completely within your power"...I agree to a point. My husband passed from cancer almost 4 years ago, and no matter what we could do his passing was not at all within our power.
I'm happy for this man that he has been able to overcome the tragedies in his life, but I hope he doesn't fool himself into thinking that he has control over everything. So far, he's been blessed.
01:15 PM on 12/12/2012
I have also had tragedies in my life....Had a 95% blockage in my abdominal aorta 3 years ago, was out of work, no insurance, could have died if not for the fact I got another job and insurance and had stents put in. Yes lucky I got job back...but if I hadnt perhaps I wouldnt be here today. Now I am going through another health problem besides money problems and personal problems.

Home needs fixing..yes I know people have it worse....but like I said, money sure makes it easier. It is always the ones with millions who cry so much..ie..actors, singers...poor me...blah blah blah.
watch out world
Frankly My Dear, I don't give a ......
02:45 PM on 12/12/2012
bunni- are you in So Cal by chance? If so, I'll send my husband over to fix your house. He loves construction projects.....especially when the project will really, truly help someone out.
04:54 PM on 12/12/2012
What a nice person you are! :)
01:10 PM on 12/12/2012
money always helps...living from paycheck to paycheck and not ever having what you want, makes all harder.
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dbrockskk1
09:00 PM on 12/12/2012
agree
12:28 PM on 12/12/2012
You go Ken!! My husband is a disabled vet, and I am disabled...we both were injured in car accidents where the other drivers were cited as at fault, and as a result of the medical bills had to file bankruptcy. However, I find that many days my outlook on life, even in chronic pain, is at least as positive as most people's...and sometimes I thinks it's even more so. I am SO grateful for every day I get to wake up (since my accident could very easily have killed me). I love nature, to sit among God's creatures (easy in Nebraska) and smell the newly mown grass. I just LOVE life!!

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